What is the first thing you do when you become single again

Most people think about going batteries or ask if they haven’t already gone back to their ex before the relationship is over sometimes if we just like to keep her ex at arms length dangling just in case they change their mind about their current partner who Never gets all of the heart she thought you had. I try to focus on something new not particularly sexually or a new person just a refresh like going out in the rain on New Year’s Eve just cleanse the past