there are so many hot girls in my college rn, and its so frustrating coz i know if i go talk to them it always gets awkward...i dont know what to do

@OogieBoogie uh didnt get what you said

@Number5 I'm Saying,, just because it gets awkward, doesn't mean you have to stop talking to them.

Learning to laugh at oneself, is a a good skill to have.

And its all about practice.

You can either keep living in fear of your awkwardness.. Or face it head on with humour and courage.

Learning to cope with emnarassment is a massive step up..... And eventually you find out - it's no big deal 😊

@OogieBoogie Yeah but then they tell other people "oo that guy came up to me and said this this this" lol thats what im afraid of lol

@Number5 and you always will be of you don't own it.

@OogieBoogie i like what you re saying, thanks

@Number5 there are ALWAYS going to be people who deride, laugh and even shame others, for no other reason than their own lack of courage to be original.

Besides.... Since you have studies to concentrate on, you could approach social interaction as a study.

From a reasoning point of view... What are the chances of you meeting the girl of your dreams?
What are the chances of interacting with these people 3?...5? yeaes from now?

If you change the perspective and reason for your social interaction, you change the emotional parameters.

Treat is an an experiment in social studies, not an attempt for romantic bonding.


It's kind of an unspoken truth, that those seeking purely for a girlfriend/boyfriend, put out desperate vibes that are off putting.

It's only when you stop seeking, so you start to make meaningful connections.

I've seen and heard of so many times this has happened,

@OogieBoogie Thank you <3