Is this considered cheating

Let’s say hypothetically that a person is in a committed relationship. At work that said person has a coworker that has a crush on them and is flirting with them constantly and the person seems to enjoy the attention and even playfully returns the flirting. But the person in the relationship says it won’t go any further than that. Is that still considered cheating?

I ask this because I went and visited my girlfriend at the restaurant she works at and ate dinner there yesterday. Almost the whole time I saw her and a co worker being way too friendly with each other. I couldn’t even finish my meal and just left

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Miram · 31-35, F

To add to what already has been said by others,

I feel that if you find yourself asking strangers rather than your own partner, you are already doing something wrong and don't trust him.

Perhaps you don't trust him because you are projecting your feeling of being untrustworthy unto him.

You need to make amends. And if something feels wrong, it usually is.

Sharon1 · 31-35, F

@Miram I’m asking because I went and visited my girlfriend at the restaurant she works at and ate dinner there yesterday. Almost the whole time I saw her and a co worker being way too friendly with each other. I couldn’t even finish my meal and just left. She knew I was there and was doing that the entire time.

Miram · 31-35, F

@Sharon1

You two need have a talk. It is not Okay, really bad and disrespectful

Sharon1 · 31-35, F

@Miram we already kind of did. It turned into a shouting match. Not good.