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Been seeing someone for two weeks. How soon is too soon to be official?

We were explicit with each other that we were exclusive from the very first date. We've also had deep conversations about what we both want out of the relationship and it seems like we're on the same page about everything. I've met her friends, and she's met mine. And we're both in grad school at the same uni so we've had chances to spend a lot of time together. I'm talking late nights up to 2am, just taking, vibing and enjoying each other's company. And I also don't feel like we're smothering each other because like I said we're in grad school and have busy lives lol. But when we do get the chance to be free and aren't hanging out with friends, our energy seems to match so well.

She's actually already even brought up talk of being official, but I didn't say yes or no, I just told her (truthfully) how refreshing and amazing it felt to be with her, and how I haven't felt this with anyone else. But I know she wants it too.

I want to make it official, but everything I read says it's too soon. And yes I read stuff from the internet for advice because without everything I've learned over the past two years especially, I probably would still have trouble even talking to a woman lol. But I also know that there's bad advice online too, which is why I'm asking here for advice specific to my case.

They say you need to spend a cumulative 36 hours together and I feel like we've spent more than that. Some "dates" were even mundane things like grocery shopping. I want to ask her, but I don't want to move too fast.
SW-User
Make it official.
I was official with my wife first date.
We got married at 10 months
You're official. It sounds like a good match.

The hub asked me to marry him after dating for only two weeks.

I think if you have something good going so quickly, its usually a good sign.

Good luck and have fun!
Fluffybull · F
@BlondilyOld Wow, two weeks! 😊 How long have you been together now? 🥰
For a very long time, raised a daughter together.@Fluffybull
Fluffybull · F
@BlondilyOld Lovely! 😊🥰👏
Fluffybull · F
I was official with my husband third date. Married after 7 months.
DDonde · 31-35, M
If you're exclusive it's official
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
What’s the difference between official and what you’re doing now?
somedude15 · 22-25, M
@Jenny1234 I can introduce her as my girlfriend
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@somedude15 you should start doing otherwise you shouldn't have agreed to being exclusive on the first date
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
It’s probably official already in her mind. Don’t make her think otherwise if you also want it to be.
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