Anyone else enjoying their ex being broken up with after breaking up with you?

@Forgetmeknot Not as terrible as me. My ex slipped into alcohol abuse after breaking up with me.

@scooogy was you happy about it?

@Forgetmeknot No, but I didn't pity her either.

@scooogy my ex went to his ex's. If I said come back here he would come. I don't want him to for legitimate reasons. But I really want to see her crash and burn. I am a terrible person.

@Forgetmeknot My ex-crush (not the same as my ex) confessed to me about her autoimmune disease, which made her far less attractive to me since then. And since she made fun of my temporary job due to covid whilst hers is less well paid and a joke compared to my profession, why should I even think of dating her?

@scooogy belittling you is a red flag. Probably a bit harsh about her disease though lol

@Forgetmeknot the only priorities in her life seem to be food, sex and alcohol (besides her rather dreary job). I prefer to be with a woman with career goals who has respect for both my temporary job and my profession.

@scooogy ummm so you're probably better to move on from that person.

@Forgetmeknot Amen. My only problem is that my new crush is taken at the moment 😭

@scooogy crushes are terrible.

@Forgetmeknot In a way yes, but I'm progressing in showing interest. More in private if you like 🙈

@scooogy that's great ❤️