I thought the love languages are valuable to understand so you can make your partner feel loved. The problem is not so much having opposites. The problem is when your partner won't fulfill your love language, whatever their own may be.

I know that's probably not very helpful. I do have the same problem with my wife though, so I know how you feel.

Of course her language is different. She's a woman. :) *ducks*

I my experience, it has taught us to be more mindful of each other’s needs and also to be more communicative about them.

Become bilingual.

I try to understand its meaning and find some common interpretations

Date.

It eventually becomes not viable as a romantic relationship.

Accept and embrace the language they speak.

.ysetruoc htiw meht taerT

Tackle him on the bed and not worry about words

Eventually, the relationship fades and dies...

Battle constantly about it.