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What do you do if your partner (s) love language is opposite of yours?

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Tackle him on the bed and not worry about words
Ysetruoc · 46-50, F
[@11509,Keepitsimple] I have the same feeling for sex but not touch. I think f you don’t get it day in and day out, you start to crave for it everyday.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
[@750435,Ysetruoc] I don’t crave it everyday. I love to sleep.
Ysetruoc · 46-50, F
[@11509,Keepitsimple] lucky you
Freetime · 51-55, M
I thought the love languages are valuable to understand so you can make your partner feel loved. The problem is not so much having opposites. The problem is when your partner won't fulfill your love language, whatever their own may be.

I know that's probably not very helpful. I do have the same problem with my wife though, so I know how you feel.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
.ysetruoc htiw meht taerT
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I held it up to a mirror! You’re so seeet 🤗[@372263,Harmonium1923]
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
Of course her language is different. She's a woman. :) *ducks*
[@329500,uncalled4] *Whacks you upside the head with her newspaper* 🗞️
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
[@421598,Becksta] Owch!
ravenwind43 · 46-50, F
It eventually becomes not viable as a romantic relationship.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I my experience, it has taught us to be more mindful of each other’s needs and also to be more communicative about them.
Phantome · 36-40, F
I try to understand its meaning and find some common interpretations
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
Accept and embrace the language they speak.
Eventually, the relationship fades and dies...
SnowBlack · 18-21, F
Become bilingual.
Ysetruoc · 46-50, F
[@1219161,SnowBlack] it turns out it is easier to pick up act of service than physical touch.
ButterRobot · 46-50, M
Battle constantly about it.
Kingfish1 · 31-35, M
Don’t talk.
Dolimyte · 36-40, M

 
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