Could you forgive your partner for having an affair ?

I know my husband has had an affair but he doesn't know that I know.
I found out this recently by accident.
Should I forgive him as it happened a few years ago or should I have it out with him although I know he will deny it ?
What would you do ?

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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

I read a funny story the other day . A woman knew the name of her hubbys mistress so she gave her daughter a doll and told her the dolls name was “Jane” which also happened to be the name of the mistress. Anytime the little girl talked about Jane to her dad he got very uncomfortable and alert lol.