Could you forgive your partner for having an affair ?

I know my husband has had an affair but he doesn't know that I know.
I found out this recently by accident.
Should I forgive him as it happened a few years ago or should I have it out with him although I know he will deny it ?
What would you do ?

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LunarOrbit · 61-69, M

Let him know you know.

Let him live with the guilt knowing you know

He’s either going to admit it…or deny it.

Either way, you will feel better its out in the open.

Its bad medicine.

Without it, it will eat you up inside.