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Could you forgive your partner for having an affair ?

I know my husband has had an affair but he doesn't know that I know.
I found out this recently by accident.
Should I forgive him as it happened a few years ago or should I have it out with him although I know he will deny it ?
What would you do ?
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Miram · 31-35, F
Don't take advice from people here. Half of them are here cheating on their spouses.
GovanDUNNY · M
@Miram same time tonight babe ??
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@Miram haha so true 😅
SW-User
lol and some people here target those who are already in a good relationship and play em because their own lives suck ~

I’m open minded when it comes to cheating’ I want to know the whole story and if it’s genuine and feelings were real then I get why things happen between people but if it’s bs it’s incomprehensible at the level of low it sinks to just for the sake of making the person who’s life sucks feel important.

Karma is watching @Miram
Miram · 31-35, F
@SW-User

and some people here target those who are already in a good relationship

I have seen that happen too. Couples being divided by envious SWers. Spreading rumors without proof.

I am fully convinced that if someone loves another, they don't keep them a secret from their spouse. Love is more pure than that. If I am in love, I am not scared of being true nor a coward. Or maybe that's just having values.

Never have I cared if any of my ex's went around having sex. I never gave a crap. But I should know it from them that it's the type of the relationship we have.

I understand that some people are poly. But I don't intend to be with a liar. And everyone has the right to know about their partners' sexual activities (not necessarily in details) Because it increases your risk of STDs..and that in return increases your risk to cancer.

Love or no love. That information is vital.
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@Miram I can defo vouch for people trying to break up relationships on here, happened many a time
SW-User
Indeed - people who are cheating physically on their partners should fess up and own their actions responsibly for so many valid reasons … being remorseful matters a great deal to innocent hearts involved, sad thing is some don’t and some even murder for their new love interest which is inconceivable and abhorrent.

Others do take responsibility and separate amicably ~ it’s all down to the kind of individuals doing it.

Those who target others because they’re in a relationship do it to test the waters … it’s a head game ~ if someone tried that on me I’d play with them as the joke they are and I wouldn’t mention em in real life because I would know that would be the ultimate loss in the game being played and they would still carry on lolling empowering them to feel better because their own bad relationship was still intact.

Clowns 🤡

Have a great day 🌹



@Miram
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Miram Savage
@Miram ❤️