Could you forgive your partner for having an affair ?

I know my husband has had an affair but he doesn't know that I know.
I found out this recently by accident.
Should I forgive him as it happened a few years ago or should I have it out with him although I know he will deny it ?
What would you do ?

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DrScissorhands

The answers that I see here is precisely part of the reason I am single. Some people just don't have standards when it comes to loyalty and honoring the sanctity of marriage. To each their own. I hope whatever you decide puts you at peace ultimately