Could you forgive your partner for having an affair ?

I know my husband has had an affair but he doesn't know that I know.
I found out this recently by accident.
Should I forgive him as it happened a few years ago or should I have it out with him although I know he will deny it ?
What would you do ?

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SW-User

"Although I know he will deny it" - that sounds like some basic trust and honesty is missing.

I could forgive my partner for having an affair but that is assuming we could talk about it.

This sounds like a hard situation... wishing you well.