Could you forgive your partner for having an affair ?

I know my husband has had an affair but he doesn't know that I know.
I found out this recently by accident.
Should I forgive him as it happened a few years ago or should I have it out with him although I know he will deny it ?
What would you do ?

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basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

I'd confront him and dump his ass.
Sorry, but I think cheating is a huge betrayal of trust.

BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F

@basilfawlty89 I didn't know you were gay.

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

@BittersweetPotato wait what? I'm not gay, I'm saying what I would do if I were in her position. In my case if a woman cheated on me, I'd dump her.

BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F

@basilfawlty89 Ah I get it now LOL. I was surprised because I never saw you on here talking about it haha

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

@BittersweetPotato yeah, no, I've never been attracted to men, only the ladies. Speaking of...whatcha doing later? 😏

BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F

@basilfawlty89 I am a lady potato though.. Would that be okay with you? lol

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

@BittersweetPotato yes. I'll switch to corn chips.

BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F

@basilfawlty89 I can't believe you would do that for me.. such sacrifice... You must be the one!!!