Could you forgive your partner for having an affair ?

I know my husband has had an affair but he doesn't know that I know.
I found out this recently by accident.
Should I forgive him as it happened a few years ago or should I have it out with him although I know he will deny it ?
What would you do ?

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

That's up to the individual. I've seen couples get infidelity out on the table and get past it, and others split right up.

I think if you choose to confront him with incontrovertible evidence and he still denies it, you have some choices to make.