Could you forgive your partner for having an affair ?

I know my husband has had an affair but he doesn't know that I know.
I found out this recently by accident.
Should I forgive him as it happened a few years ago or should I have it out with him although I know he will deny it ?
What would you do ?

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Entwistle · 56-60, M

I would need to be absolutely certain he has cheated. If i was then i would confront him about it. You need to do sides what's at risk though. Would it affect any kids? Mortgage etc.

Fluffybull · F

@Entwistle It would be the end for me but we don't have any kids and we both work and can afford to split. Some people may be in a more vulnerable position.