Why is it so hard to articulate love yet so easy to express disappointment? — Kaui Hart Hemmings, The Descendants

@popmol Love is. So is fear. And fear is stronger than love.

@SW-User indeed.but maybe love is born of fear. but also we are an evolved form of monkeys, i think our basic principle is for men, find a good wife, who is healthy and has bigger breast and bigger hips both for the child. get to procreate as much as possible, then once there is a child protect it and gather food for both the kid and the mother.

while woman only need to care for the child and make sure it survives and also feed it and educate it. and care for it.

the problem now seems to be that woman expect the same level of care they give to their children coming from the husband while their nature is too take care of them and procreate. but this has changed alot over the years but i think its something fundamental in our bodies.

@popmol Men expect care and love too.

@SW-User indeed. i'm probably wrong :p

@popmol 😜 We've probably evolved a lot more from how you describe. That was our core, yes, once upon a time.

@SW-User indeed, probably because we don't need to focus on surviving and more onto living at least in the west. thats probably why there less and less children compared to africa and bad countries