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Tiusflow · 61-69, M
My ex is a borderline. Their minds don't work the way most people's do. If you describe their behavior to someone else they probably think you are exaggerating but you are not.
They have no awareness of their behavior obly how others react to it. They have to be right about everything and people who disagree woth them are viewed as mean or abusive towards them.
I received pms from some borderline women who told me i needed to understand how they felt and how they really didnt want to live this way. I told them that i did understand how my wife felt. It was hard for anyone with an ounce of empathy not to but it didn't matter. When someones behavior towards you is abusive you need to get away from them. When someone never admits they are wrong they are toxic. You need to leave people like that.
They have no awareness of their behavior obly how others react to it. They have to be right about everything and people who disagree woth them are viewed as mean or abusive towards them.
I received pms from some borderline women who told me i needed to understand how they felt and how they really didnt want to live this way. I told them that i did understand how my wife felt. It was hard for anyone with an ounce of empathy not to but it didn't matter. When someones behavior towards you is abusive you need to get away from them. When someone never admits they are wrong they are toxic. You need to leave people like that.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Tiusflow you nailed a lot of good points!
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
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Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@akindheart but yet - they still try. 😒
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Ambroseguy80 yes. as it happened again. they thought they were slick. lol
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@akindheart hope you took them to school? ;)
melbeacher · 56-60, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
@melbeacher yes they were.
Uncfred · 61-69, M
Heavens honey, how could you have expected it from seemingly normal people?
Put it behind you and down to experience, the internet for the most part is just words, the minds behind it are the ones effected.
I hope it does not damage your lovely/human nature, there is more life in front of you.
Wishing you well.
Put it behind you and down to experience, the internet for the most part is just words, the minds behind it are the ones effected.
I hope it does not damage your lovely/human nature, there is more life in front of you.
Wishing you well.
melbeacher · 56-60, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
@melbeacher LOL. you are normal!! You just had some unusual experiences
meat18 · 56-60, M
@akindheart Welcome to the Wonderful world of the internet!!
akindheart · 61-69, F
@meat18 you know, honestly, i am glad for it. no more naivety for me! I have learned a lot
akindheart · 61-69, F
@TexChik yeah craziness online
Funlov · M
Wow I’d go after him it’s really not that hard to get a IP address this site is easy to fit in to the network I’d go after him but that’s me
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
It's a shame when all one has tried to be is a good friend. It seems that the nice people get taken advantage of...no wonder there are trust issues everywhere.
It's definitely not you, it was them and the game they enjoy playing.
I wish you the best...and try not to take what happened to heart.
It's definitely not you, it was them and the game they enjoy playing.
I wish you the best...and try not to take what happened to heart.
akindheart · 61-69, F
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Slade and sometimes both
2cool4school · 46-50, F
@akindheart @IAMMONARAHIMI I thought so too 🤔 as far as treatable…
[quote] Treatment consists of therapy
Treatments include talk therapy or, in some cases, medications. Hospitalization helps if symptoms are severe.
Therapies
Cognitive behavioral therapy, Anger management, Dialectical behavior therapy, Transference focused psychotherapy, Psychotherapy, and Schema therapy [/quote]
[quote] Treatment consists of therapy
Treatments include talk therapy or, in some cases, medications. Hospitalization helps if symptoms are severe.
Therapies
Cognitive behavioral therapy, Anger management, Dialectical behavior therapy, Transference focused psychotherapy, Psychotherapy, and Schema therapy [/quote]
akindheart · 61-69, F
@2cool4school she wasn't interested i am sure in treatment. but her bf put the label on her and he would have known.
callmecrazy · 46-50, F
lasergraph · 70-79, M
mrfixitman · 61-69, M
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akindheart · 61-69, F
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melbeacher · 56-60, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
NOWHealing · F
I just had someone BlueLotus comment on one of my stories that they believe that I'm you. I didn't recognize your username so I searched for you. Was it the same on EP? My last few weeks on EP I was targeted by a sociopathic person. That person must have a few dozen accounts on FB and twitter to catphish from. It sounds like that same person is here targeting you now. The man who started the show Catphishing was targeted by a young girl who had created a town full of people on social media. It could be that this MM is actually all of these other women as well. I'm sorry this is happening to you. It's really Creepy!
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SomeMichGuy · M
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SomeMichGuy i let it go a long time ago. then i kept seeing these fake profiles and kept blocking them. i just knew it was her.
SomeMichGuy · M
@akindheart idk how you can tell it is her lol
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SomeMichGuy i can't tell you here..
akindheart · 61-69, F
ManWithNoName · 51-55, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
You sound like an empath, just remember to keep people at a distance and don't invest too much seriousness into your "friendship"; seriousness should be reserved for family and close long-time friends. Mentally ill people have serious deficits in their self awareness. At least you tried to help, it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong really. Therapy is expensive.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@ballandchain wow...such insight...thank you. i tried to do a good deed for a friend and got taken advantage of. so i started reading on it and guess what? it talked about empaths and sociopaths...bingo...thank you for the good advice
lasergraph · 70-79, M
ManWithNoName · 51-55, M
wickey · 70-79, M
I remember you from EP days and feel sorry that you have to put up with such
cussed people, and by trying to help out, makes it so much more heart breaking.Since this is an anonymous site you should always play safe by not getting overly involved in other peoples affairs, just not worth it.
cussed people, and by trying to help out, makes it so much more heart breaking.Since this is an anonymous site you should always play safe by not getting overly involved in other peoples affairs, just not worth it.
luv2fish · 61-69, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
@in10RjFox she is still on here and puts up fake profiles. i get them all the time. sad her life is so miserable....
Flipper111 · 51-55, M
@akindheart sad
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Flipper111 yep..every week i get at least 2 or more fake profile.
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looking4thesun · M
@akindheart lets hope it stays good.. good luck to you.. you seem like a very nice person and don't need that shit :)
akindheart · 61-69, F
@looking4thesun i hope you and i can be friends...thank you for recognizing i am kind.
looking4thesun · M
@akindheart of course we can be friends.. I would like that very much
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
akindheart · 61-69, F
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SW-User isn't that the truth? of course karma bit this woman in the a**. it flipped on her and she lost the man after all.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Driver2 there sure are and she STILL comes to this story to see who comments. i get fake profiles all the time.
Driver2 · M
@akindheart they need a hobby
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