@Mindfulness what is it?

@Royricky09 Well now that would be telling.
I do try and keep a modicum of anonymity on here.

@helenS also, I sort of knew better when I started dating her - I kind of knew it wasn't going to have a good ending, but I was the typical guy. The exterior package was what I paid attention to.

@Ontheroad I can understand that, and the "exterior package" was quite attractive, I guess?

@helenS yep, a real dream boat in looks and body. And nothing underneath but ego.

@helenS red hot is correct!

@bluemachine Yes that's true 😏

@helenS bella cino ;)

@Ohplease47 that does sound frustrating and I can relate. I have that problem with my maiden name. It was sooo sooo annoying to have to repeat it over and over and spell too. Consequently, Even tho I'm divorced I've kept my "new" last name. I don't know if I'll ever go back to actively using my maiden name. I do feel some guilt over this.

@Mindful its a normal name for usa. Not foreign long or complicated.

But most people are not good listeners...or good writers/spellers either.

So I changed around the first to make it impossible to mispronounce or misspell and it also holds the quality of my real name, and left off the last letter of my last name. Doesnt look at all like hiding anything

Made a lot of difference too

@Ohplease47 https://similarworlds.com/funny/5620557-British-comedy