needy people

just t heard this quote

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"most people are as needy
as their unmet need"

make you (me) think about relationships in a different way
not just food and shelter but how does that
affect an adult?
how does a complicated childhood affect
that adult relationship

how does it affect the relationship knowing your partner had a complicated childhood ?

I know morn adults need to think this.

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SW-User

Needy and avoidant people both have the same wounds, they just handle it differently.

Ynotisay · M

Well, I sorta' don't agree. Life is a solo. For everyone. We create our own realities. Some people are needy. Some people aren't. Lots of paths up the mountain.

RoxClymer · 41-45, M

@Ynotisay
life is a solo- there are many people in early graves on Everest, K2, Denali and mountains like them, that has a Solo mindset.

meanwhile 92 year old great grandma, is telling her great grand kids stories of "these brave men"

Ynotisay · M

@RoxClymer Well, just because I know a bit about this stuff, very, very few people solo big summits. And those who do are a cut above the best. Real mountaineering is a team activity.
And I personally think it is brave. It's purposefully putting yourself in a position of suffering and risk. Most don't do that.
The solo part comes in to play with every decision and action we make in life. Solo doesn't mean selfish. It means autonomy of thought. We all have that.

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