There is no love only an unspoken agreement between two parties it is all contingent upon conditions being met when conditions aren't being met, the agreement is null and void....I dare anyone to disagree with me on this....
that's what they all say until something happens, a lost job, a fight over something trivial, or someone better comes along, or simple boredom....yeah conditions
To each his own. You got a good argument though. But love .... true love ... is blind. No judgements or conditions. Sacrifice. Sorry that you feel that way. But not the love that I know.