@in10RjFox That is why I elaborating to you on it, You better re-read my quote, pain needs your attention means it asks you to not evade it, focus on it. Many do not heal the pain and carried an old burden leading them to a miserable life.

@in10RjFox I say it again, you
Give up if you can't comprehend, every word has a different meaning and is taken based on the context. If you wanna go against the grain, it is you who are accountable.

@AliyaNahid I repeat... There is a lot of difference between need and want. You are using it as synonym.

Pain wants MY attention, that's why it pains. To attend to it or ignore it or live with it is my choice. Depends on my need at that time. If I need to go somewhere, then I would attend to it. But if I had wanted to go somewhere, then I may just not go.

@in10RjFox You are confused to get

@AliyaNahid if one can heal themselves by reflecting on their wounds, then where is the question of healing others!