What would you do to people who hurt you for personal interest, but then play victim and just "concerned" about you when confronted?

I'd no longer associate with them and or anyone that supports them. It's not worth it, people like that aren't worth trying to change if it's even possible for them to do

...there is a reason that one has an old farm; a barn, some outbuildings...bins and containers...land and lime...

Yes, the woods ARE lovely, dark, and deep, Mr. Frost...

Tell it like it is and fix it.

If they mattered to me.

If not, snip snip.

Go on with your bad self.

Never speak to them again

I get rid of them