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Question for married people

My bf says that the woman also has to propose when giving the engagement ring?
He already has my ring and is planning to propose (overheard him talking to his sister).
How does the female propose? Like I’m so confused. I have his ring already.
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Mrnotsonew · 61-69, M Best Comment
Not sure he knows what he is talking about. You don’t have to propose back.

Baremine · 70-79, C
Well we got married almost 59 years ago. I never heard of a woman proposing to a man. I don't recall my granddaughter proposing to her husband when they got engaged. Traditionally I don't think so.
No I have heard of the woman asking the man to marry her but not the norm.
Picklebobble2 · 61-69, M
As far as I'm aware the only time 'tradition' has a woman propose is February 29
Ceci13 · 51-55, F
Nope completely weird incorrect what is he talking about? That's not even ever been true. Did he read that somewhere did he make this up? If he's confused about that I damn sure don't know about marrying him if this is some new crap the new generations are making up this is dumb and we really are cooked. It's his one time to get down on his knee and propose because if he and you do it right you will spend plenty of time on your knees lol he shouldn't fuck.this one thing up at all
eMortal · M
I've seen it done in some movies.
It's a trend towards the broader movement of gender equality.
Do you want traditional roles or gender equality?
justanotherone · 56-60, M
I am married for more 20 years.
We didn’t propose to each other. One sunday afternoon sitting at home, we discussed we should get married and we did it later.
My first marriage was finished quite early.

Believe me, no formalities matter. It’s how you work together on the relationship will make or break it.
Baremine · 70-79, C
@justanotherone I met my wife when I was 15 and she was 17. We went together for two years and talked about marriage then the fall of 66 happened. A nightmare for both of us. But then came mid February of 67. Put the train back on the track. Ask her dad for her hand. No formal proposal. In December she walked down one aisle with her dad, changed her name and walked down the other aisle as my wife.
Never heard of that.
MrsRachelEvans · 31-35, F
No! The girl does not have to propose as well. Just say Yes!
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Reminds me of rock-paper-scissors 🫲
are you from a baltic region or something?
lissah · 36-40, F
Dont ask me. I used to be a stripper.
youngman1958 · 61-69, M
@lissah That would be easy to get around, though, if you actually wanted to see someone from the club outside of the club. Meet elsewhere for coffee after your shift, etc. Don't leave with them.
lissah · 36-40, F
@youngman1958 really doesnt matter. Thats not my job anymore.
Baremine · 70-79, C
@lissah I had hoped you would respond to my message with more than a heart
But your choice
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Fentonisfree · 51-55, MVIP
Never heard of that before?
Gibbon · 70-79, M
Sorry, never heard of such a thing. In my world, she either says yes or starts laughing and says no. Are you kidding?
Degbeme · 70-79, M
This must be something new if it is true. It was never done. The guy did the proposing.
AbstractWave · 61-69, M
Never heard of this, you simply say yes or no.
nowic2 · 61-69, M
It sounds like this is something your bf has made up. It seems like a bit of a red flag

 
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