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Why is it usually the one who retaliates or fights back against a bully who ends up being the one who gets caught and in trouble? I've seen this happen a lot of times. The person who does the bullying gets away with it, and the one who responds to being attacked ends up being the one that looks like the bad guy.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
yep lol that's meeeeee i always stand up for the one who is weak or being picked on.. i try to protect people from being hurt... and yet it's me who gets told off both by the person i try to help and the one i am trying to save them from and a few others besides... but hey if approval and being popular were all i seek I'd be a pretty shallow person and sometimes doing the right thing is more important
xladixdisillusionedx · 31-35, F
Because most bully's are slicker and know how to lie and charm people. Most victims usually fight back when they are tired and don't think about it when they snap.
Serenitree · F
It happens in more ways than you can imagine. I had to leave a poetry site because there is one member who is rude to everyone, but apparently self defense is unacceptable.

It appears that it is worse to defend yourself thatn to attack someone. Andci don't understand it either. My granddaughter failed a test because she told the kid behind her to stop thinking outloud because she couldn't think with his chatter. He got to finish writing the test. She got kicked out and got a failing grade on that test.
MellyMel22 · F
Because bullies manipulate. Don't worry, the truth always comes out one way or another 😊
oberpa · 80-89, M
When you get bullied, you have to plan your counter attack. It seems to a \rule of nature that if you respond immediately, you get caught. Playing sports taught me that.
Ironhand · 51-55, M
Because often the retaliation is done publicly while the bullying occurs out of the public arenas.
Ironhand · 51-55, M
That's why, it needs to be done covertly
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Because life is a dick

 
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