Drifting apart

Slowly and gradually myself and my better half are drifting apart . I can see it coming but helpless .

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Sometimes people get in ruts that are hard to change. How about a date night? Focus on being nice. Enjoying the movie or supper. No pressure. Recall how you fell in love. Start there. Tell each other 3 things you like about each other. Do little nice things each day. Ask one another how was your day. Listen. Some say counseling works. I think at some point it is over. How long have you two been together? What keeps you together? Do you make love or have sex still? I am pretty open. Those matter especially to hold you together. That's a start. Good luck.