I Want to Be Positive About Life

I feel like in society you cant please anyone, if you love yourself your conceded or high maintenance,and if you have low self esteem your weak. I really have problems with this,I hate myself,I feel ugly. I tell myself I'm grate and beautiful and it never works, when I look in the mirror I feel ugly I feel like I'm lying to myself when I tell myself I'm grate. has anyone had this problem ?,I have been having it for years. I also really hate being single and having no close friends. how do I deal with this?

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

walabby · 61-69, M

Lots of people have this problem.. It will fade with time...

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@walabby its been almost three years cince I posted this, I still feel like this, it hasent even faded a little.

walabby · 61-69, M

@Girlyfriendcollecting Nearly two years, actually, but don't despair, this all takes time. Whereas you should look after yourself physically, mental is more important. Work on your personality, write a list of all the good things about you, ignore the bad.
Life is not easy, but you can make it work for you.