How many messages do you get that test your patience?

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SW-User

A woman on here once told me she had 247 unread messages, she showed me a screen shot. She said she deleted all the ones that just said hi, or had dic pics and was left with two. Made me realise that i got the same number of messages minus the hi's and dic pics lol

yourmami · 18-21, F

@SW-User Yeah I need to stop responding to the ones that just say hi

SW-User

@yourmami My theory is, when you get a message that just says hi, what they're really saying is i want to be friends but i want you to put in all the effort and i will expect nudes soon.

chrisCA · M

@SW-User I am curious what her profile was like.

chrisCA · M

@SW-User Maybe. I don't read too much into a simple "Hi", or "Hello". I don't belong to a demographic that has the luxury to pick and choose from several hundred unread messages. Lol

SW-User

@chrisCA I can't remember her profile exactly, i only knew she had so many unread messages because she sent me a screen shot because i said i found it hard to believe anyone would have so many messages. Yes i'm the same as you, if i get more than a couple of messages at once it's very rare. But it's quality not quantity that counts so by that standard we're doing well :)