It's not your fault.

Usually it is not 100% true.. Usually both sides contribute to the end result.. Now usually one side will have a higher percentage of the blame and the other side less..

Often a friend will tell you your not to blame and that the other person is 100% responsible.. But often they are saying that out of loyalty to you..

Sometimes, it is my fault. Other times, it's our fault. Still other times, We both know, where the fault lies. The question is, where do we go from here?

Hollow words to me... just like compliments.

for so many years i was told it was my fault that when now they say its not i dont believe them or myself