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QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F
It depends.
If people are just naturally bubbly it doesn’t really bother me. Sometimes people are just trying too hard and come off as fake. That does bother me.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@QueenOfTheNerds Ditto, only when it seems fake. I feel they are trying to sell me something. Most of the hyper ones are fake I find.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
No. The overly happy wear me out. I’m sure some are genuine, but I’ll bet there are more who are actually not happy, but they put on a show of happiness. Be true to yourself. Respect your authentic feelings whether happy or sad, and if you have the confidence to be yourself, you’ll actually feel better about yourself.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I wouldn't say I feel overtly ashamed. Sometimes when I'm around someone like that, they exhaust me and I can feel like I am or am at least perceived as an underachiever- but I quickly remember I don't necessarily care to be competitive, it's unnecessary stress.
@Starcrossed yeah I like this answer. Maybe ashamed isn't the exact word I should have chose but it's the first that came to mind when trying to pick a description
Magenta · F
It's exhausting, especially when you can "feel" it is pretense or fake. Trying too hard to [i]be[/i] something.
Wiseacre · F
The reason I don't relate to it is bc I do NOT compare myself to others.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
No. I know very well that there's plenty of people who push a happy smile because facing their sadness destroys them. I also avoid comparing myself to others. We all are different and cope differently, that's all.
I’m often this happy go lucky person, but it doesn’t mean I don’t have nights that I cry myself to sleep, etc. We’re all human and handle everything in our own way :)
itsok · 31-35, F
I don’t mind people who are always in a good mood as long as they show some empathy. But some people complain about sad people 👀
SW-User
I think they are faking it mostly. Maybe just a rare few are happy but everyone has their problems.
I'm normally in a hyper mood, but reading this, i sympathies with you
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
They are just like you. They can hurt too, sometimes way deeper than you see.
On the contrary, they want to show you that you can [b]do good and be great[/b] despite all the challenges. There is no shame in pain. You will raise your energy when you are ready to. And that is okay - just harness it until you feel ready to shine again. Until then, let the encouraging smiles and acts of kindness warm your days :)
pdockal · 56-60, M
I could care less
As long as my family and friends support me & i them
Casheyane · F
Nah. You're good. We just hide it well.
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
Absolutely!
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
No because it's often fake. You'll notice many narcissists do this all the time, in public. It's an entirely different situation at home.
Elanor · F
I don’t think I’m super fly but I am happy enough at times sure … other times I get the blues

Being human can be tricky 🚩 🎪
SW-User
I'm usually the one in a good mood
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@Colonelmustardseed lol I know what you mean. It's so awkward to be a good person that's made uncomfortable by other seemingly good people because you're used to shit people. Correct me if I'm wrong but this is what I took from that and how I translated it to my experience
@Iusedtobehereallthetime Sort of. I can’t say I’m a good person though. I just try to be fair and decent to other people. At the least, I try not to hurt other people’s feelings or inconvenience them.
@Colonelmustardseed yah, makes sense.

 
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