A possibly sensitive question…

If someone doesn’t know about your culture or ethnicity, are you okay with them asking you questions, if they do it respectfully, or do you find it offensive ?

(Personally I’d rather be asked than have the person making assumptions that are [b]really[/b] insulting.)🙁

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LucyFuhr · 56-60, F

It really depends on who's asking for me...

Most people just assume that I'm what I [b][i]appear[/i][/b] to be. They rarely even think to ask. The ones who do ask though, they're probably even worse, especially when they realize I'm not what they thought I was.

And no matter how polite it starts, it usually ends up being offensive AF.