I Am Going to Say Something Controversial

Thick/curvy is just a nicer way of saying fat. Fat isn't pretty,good,sought after and it's not something to be embraced or celebrated. Just call a spade a spade and be done with it. I'm not curvy I'm just fat and it sucks.

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NerdNymph · 41-45, F

I totally see where you're coming from on this. I understand what it is to be a chubby woman and a skinny woman. I have been both at different times in my life. Being skinny is hard for me, and it did not make me feel more beautiful. Same issues, different slant. However, at all times, know that your size does not determine your value. Sexiness is around 80% confidence. Who worries about the other 20% if you believe in your own worth. Find something you love about yourself. Know that being a woman makes you a sought after valuable human. Your body is amazing and capable of giving so much pleasure. Believe it, girl.