Who wrote the rules, for the rules based order ?

Nations and their voters, mostly after WWII, in order to prevent the return of fascism. See the universal declaration of human rights of the UN.
See Americans kill all civility to prevent peace
See the ecosystem itself targeted to prevent that rules based socialism. See everyone deny and hate me for a distraction.
Enjoy fascism and shhhhhh. Or be targeted.
Sorry your question trigggers the Big American Blackball of indifference! The low numbers of responses should tell you that you are making sense.