There families of six US soldiers killed in Iran have declined to attend a gold star ceremony with Donald Trump

After reading about how are least some are being screwed out of death benefits because it doesn't count as a declared war likely is not helping?

They'll be honored more appropriately later, when it's not about Trump.

Some do understand that is what this is about.

A shame that people are so hurt that they feel they must deny themselves a ceremony to honour their loved ones. For me it shows how deep the wounds run. And how much they understand that Trump makes these things about himself not those it is intended for.