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Iran is a best case scenario for a girl in Afghanistan

But the US and Israel are actively making it unsafe for women yet again. Zara a comedian who does activist work asks women in Afghanistan about Iran.

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
I really don't like this position. Why? Because Iran was supporting the Taliban who started the attacks against Pakistan. Ask why she didn't go to Pakistan? It would be a whole lot easier than Afghanistan. 🤷🏻‍♂

Islamabad is in Pakistan. That's where the peace talks are. Not like they supporting Trump exactly.

FYI there's someone on this site in Pakistan. This position is not his take on that situation either. He is really scared of the Taliban himself in his own Islamic country.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@DeWayfarer It's multiple females who go to Iran for college, not just one. Iran has done horrible things but I feel like it's a separate thing from the decision that makes women flee from Afghanistan to pursue college in Iran for whatever reason. If there's several women who decide to, then there must be a reason from their perspective, not American's perspective.

In the video, I think the female caller says that females who are from Afghanistan who don't have men aren't allowed to travel alone, so they quite literally can't.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@SatanBurger I believe there is something more going on that is not being said. It makes no sense to go to Afghanistan. Even if you are from Afghanistan. Especially because of the travel with men issue. It's not an issue in Pakistan.

If she has no men with her how can she possibly get back! 🤷🏻‍♂

Afghanistan would turn them away.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@DeWayfarer I asked AI and it said that Pakistan was wanting to deport thousands of Afghans at one point and Iran was the closest route:

Your instinct is right: the logic is usually not that Iran is safe for Afghan women, but that it can be the less bad nearby option for some people in a very constrained situation. Afghan women have fled to Iran when Pakistan was also tightening deportations and restrictions, and some women choose Iran because it may be the nearer route, where they already have family or community ties, or because they believe they can more easily keep studying or working there for a time.

Why Iran over Pakistan

Iran and Pakistan have both hosted millions of Afghans, but both have also carried out mass returns and imposed harsh limits on refugees, so the choice is often between two difficult options rather than one good one.

In at least one reported case, Afghan women had planned to go to Pakistan first, but shifted to Iran after Pakistan began deporting Afghan refugees more aggressively.

Women may also move where they already have language familiarity, relatives, transport routes, or an existing migrant network, because that can matter more than abstract country rankings when escape is urgent.

What the title likely means

The title “Iran is the best case scenario for Afghanistan women” is probably using best case scenario in a very relative sense: compared with returning to Taliban-controlled Afghanistan, Iran may temporarily offer some women more space to study, work, or move around, even though it still carries serious risk. That does not mean the speaker endorses Iran as a truly good place; it means that under extreme constraints, it may be the least impossible option.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@DeWayfarer I also looked it up and in Pakistan they were deporting women a lot with no protections, this forced women to go to college in Iran and study there. Though Iran was also trying to at one point.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@SatanBurger All I am saying is something doesn't sound right. Women in Iran need to have the men as well to travel.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@DeWayfarer The point isn’t that Iran has no gender restrictions. The point is that Afghan women often face a layered trap: Taliban rules restrict leaving Afghanistan without a male guardian, and once outside, Iran and border enforcement create more barriers, so women may still be unable to move freely back and forth.

People sometimes assume a country comparison means one place is “free” and the other is “restricted,” but for Afghan women that’s often not the real choice. It is more like choosing among unsafe options where legal status, transport, family ties, and whether a male relative is available all matter at once.

I also looked up Pakistan since everyone is praising it there:

Pakistan faces serious safety challenges for women, including high rates of gender-based violence, low conviction rates, and cultural barriers to protection. Afghan refugee women there often encounter added risks like harassment at borders, deportation pressures, and limited access to safe spaces.

Key Risks

Domestic and sexual violence: Thousands of cases yearly, with conviction rates under 2%, driven by patriarchal norms and weak enforcement.

Honor killings and harassment: Endemic issues, worsened for vulnerable groups like refugees.

Refugee-specific dangers: Afghan women report extortion, threats, and trafficking risks during deportations or displacement.

Afghan Women Context

For Afghans fleeing to Pakistan, insecurity compounds Taliban threats back home—women face restricted movement, early marriage pressures, and exploitation without support networks. It's not uniquely "unsafe" compared to neighbors like Iran, but consistently hazardous for unaccompanied or undocumented women.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@SatanBurger oh I'm not saying Pakistan is guilt free. Yet of the three it's slightly better. Not a whole lot though.

Please remember Pakistan is the only one now hosting that ridiculous peace conference.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@DeWayfarer Well for whatever reason, women get stuck in Iran and sometimes have to live there. Like when Pakistan was wanting to deport many, many women had to choose between staying in Afghanistan or being allowed to what counts for school in Iran. Now even that is being bmbed