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emiliya I don’t think the issue with pronouns works the way you’re describing. A lot of the cases where a conservative is reported to have been "attacked" for not knowing someone's pronouns often stem from their reaction to being corrected, rather than an innocent misunderstanding. Usually, it's not that someone gets unfairly bullied for making a mistake, it’s that they refuse to use the pronouns after being politely informed.
When someone tells you what pronouns they prefer, it’s simply a request for respect. Unfortunately, some people reject this right from the start, as if it's a stance they need to take. It’s not about being forced to do anything unreasonable; it’s about recognizing and respecting another person's identity.
The issue is more likely about a
refusal to acknowledge the science behind gender and biological sex, which is well-established. Not understanding or accepting this doesn’t make it any less real, and refusing to respect someone’s pronouns after they’ve told you what they prefer can come off as intentionally disrespectful.
That’s why these situations escalate, and it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy, resisting something you don’t fully understand creates the very conflict you're trying to avoid.
Common decency and respect for others isn’t evil, it’s just basic kindness.
For the fact you consider basic decency to others as evil tells me a lot.