United States is not the best country in the world far from it and getting worse

There's a reason why my husband is moving to me, not the other way..
I love the US, but I can't afford to live there without worrying about if I get sick, pregnant, or the fact that I need therapy. I pushed my husband to go to the ER once, cause he had super high fever, and when I called them, they told us to come, that cost us $1900.. In comparison, I was picked up in an ambulance here, and taken to the ER and given medicine, and that was free. Also the one year I stayed with him, one neighbor killed his wife, we saw our neighborhood on the ID channel, I was stalked after posting on the marketplace even tho we didn't meet them at our house. But still people started coming to our house when I was alone, and even watching us from the bushes, we moved.. My husband didn't like me walking to the store by myself, and the one time I did, a guy asked me for directions and then asked if I needed a ride (he seemed nice tho, but I said no). Allergy meds there didn't work for me for more than a week, then I had to switch. The water made me sick, and I had to find a more expensive water that made me feel less nauseous.

However, I love staying there for some time to visit family, and I always have a list of things I bring with me home lol. Most people are so friendly and outgoing too, at least where we lived.