@PaigesCosplayBarbie This conservative/liberal divide, IMO, is largely being rendered obsolete and antiqiated by the rejection by self proclaimed "conservatives" of what we used to think of as conservative values, like honesty, not covering your neighbors wife, etc.
I get that you're probably looking for gender roles here, but modern "conservatives" don't really seem to differentiate between women and gay men as much as between them and us, much like Democrats, foreigners, or anyone else.
Good luck with getting your rocks off, but I think that you're fooling yourself by mixing in politics.