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Is being book-smart underrated by society?

I hasten to add that I am not practically smart at all and there are many on EP much smarter than I. However, I do read and (no s**t Sherlock) I do have something of an interest in politics. Most people don't find these things that important though. Some give you respect for that but most people don't seem to value it at all.

I have managed to meet like minded people on here and I have friends in a London book club. Becoming a political activist IRL has also been good for me. Most of those who I meet though still see me as a boring geek. Living in a big city I can find people I have common ground with but getting on with 'average' people I sometimes find hard. At the work canteen I zone-out because I have zero interest in reality TV, celebrity gossip or office intrigue. I know I shouldn't care and I usually don't but sometimes it is annoying not to be respected for something that you think should be valued. Any thoughts?
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Biffed · 26-30, M
It's called fitting in, old sport. (: Maybe you come off as being pretentious unknowingly?
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
Yes, it is possibly true. I am a bit shy I guess and it could be a case of putting up a wall which gets mistaken for arrogance.

I don't belittle people at all and don't do any kind of one-upmanship but perhaps the vibe I give off says; "prick".
@Burnley123: sometimes being comfortaable with who you are means not caring what other people think,
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@Creativemojo: Yes so it is a dilema really. I can be slightly stand-offish and not give a shit or an awkward doormat who is trying to please the wrong people to no avail. It ain't perfect, but the former is clearly better.
We don't get always get it right,there's no such thing as perfect,but we can just try to do the best we can.