Why do women who dress sexy complain about being objectified?

By dress sexy I am talking about shirts that expose nipples cleavage or belly, tight yoga pants or tight pants in general where we can see camel toe and panty lines and short shorts where the ass cheeks hang out and shorts so tight we can see the outline of the vulva and panties. Or dresses and skirts that go far north of the knee. Also clicking (loud) boots and high heels draw attention as well. I dont get why women would dress sexy but want to complain about guys focusing on their bodies instead of their mind. Are they just saying that because people are afraid that admitting to wanting attention would make people think they are slutty or do they actually believe men are capable of not being blinded by female beauty when its on full display?

For the record I do not believe nor am I calling for women to not dress sexy or the way they want. Just frustrated with their reactions to men they come across when they dress that way.

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SatanBurger · 36-40, F

I think it's because there's a fantasy of objectification being romantic and sometimes it's the complete opposite. I'm not sure if women don't want to be objectified deep down, being objectified means being desired so I think that every woman wants that and I think men like being objectified by women.

But... in real life when objectification happens, sex is really bad because the man is focused on himself when sex actually happens. Kind of like the equivalent to the "you put your D in and thrust for a bit and that's it." You realize that the majority of women don't have orgasms right?

What I'm saying is, there's a right and wrong way to be objectified. I think deep down women want to be but the men who do that are simply bad fucks and out to use you, there's no intimacy there.

So women dress like that because they do want to be desired but I think there's another way to go about it.

And also some women want to be looked at but not touched, that's their business as well.

Graylight · 51-55, F

@SatanBurger Look at TV adbertozing. Look at magazines. Social media. Popular shows. Movies. Then tell us how young girls are conditioned to equate their bodies with anything but make approval.

SatanBurger · 36-40, F

@Graylight Of course.