Why do women who dress sexy complain about being objectified?

By dress sexy I am talking about shirts that expose nipples cleavage or belly, tight yoga pants or tight pants in general where we can see camel toe and panty lines and short shorts where the ass cheeks hang out and shorts so tight we can see the outline of the vulva and panties. Or dresses and skirts that go far north of the knee. Also clicking (loud) boots and high heels draw attention as well. I dont get why women would dress sexy but want to complain about guys focusing on their bodies instead of their mind. Are they just saying that because people are afraid that admitting to wanting attention would make people think they are slutty or do they actually believe men are capable of not being blinded by female beauty when its on full display?

For the record I do not believe nor am I calling for women to not dress sexy or the way they want. Just frustrated with their reactions to men they come across when they dress that way.

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I can’t speak for all women I will speak for myself , I’m confident in my body , So I show it off because It makes me feel good. I have my own style and most of my style is revealing ones because I like rave wear and cyberdog , that’s how most of my type of style clothes are made. I wear them if it’s really hot outside , no point covering up everything if I’m over heated. Sometimes I don’t even realise I’m showing much. I’m a pole dancer , I have to wear clothes that don’t cover me up so I can grip to it and yes to also attract people to watch my shows , I still require respect such as no touching me inappropriately. With the boots most of my boots are what you described, It’s just my style , I’ve always worn big boots , they just go with what I wear. I wear dresses often too and most dresses these days are made tight or to show boobs. And clothes aren’t consent. It works both ways , men dress up or show stuff too. We don’t go off like wild animals when we see them.