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daisymay I’m a liberal, and I completely agree with your assessment of how things started to REALLY go south during the Obama administration.
But failing to seek compromise means everyone has a “my way or no way” attitude, which we’ve been working with for several years now. And all that gets us is a big ol’ healing pile of “nothing gets done but at least I didn’t give in to those stupid bastards over there.”
I think @NoSugar is asking exactly the right question, with exactly the right boundaries.
If it’s about border security, as the right screams regularly (led by the POSIC), then find out what the folks who are tasked with keeping the border secure want, in all the various places they work (different stuff in different places), and offer some or all of the funding necessary to make that happen. Will some of that be a wall? Very probably. Will McConnell and his not-dying-fast-enough-old-white-men-cohort* claim some kind of political victory? Probably. But guess what - the border will be more secure, and federal workers will get paychecks.
I’m not suggesting you fit this, but if liberals insist on a political victory instead of taking care of business, then they’re just as bad as the republicans who are doing the same thing, IMO.
* For the record, I’m white, middle class, rich (though not wealthy), male, and 60 (almost) - I can talk about the old white bastards who need to leave government to more women and younger folk. :)