Reaching out for human faith is unfortunately a journey I don't have a map for. Nobody told me that Women who got Sexually assaulted often experienced an increase in libido. I wasn't born knowing that and mom certainly never told me. but every time I've been in a relationship the women I've dated have usually walked through fire and been through it all and so most of them are Survivors and over time I gradually started to realize that What on the outside looked like promiscuity on the inside was often a Trauma response and a person's brain just trying to do the best it could with this extremely fucked up world. These women have already suffered enough. and now we've got a stupid culture that views sex through the lens of disgust and shame.
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and so I personally vow, I will offer you only understanding. and no Judgement. I promise, I will never criticize a woman for this. All too often its just someone's coping mechanism for surviving a situation where their consent wasn't even sought or asked for.
I've been flying blind. I didn't know some women would fear I'd hold them back from other ambitions or any of it.
I had to find that out myself and soothe them reminding them I didn't want to get in the way. I don't have a map for any of this. It's been extremely difficult to navigate because of it. I wish I could tell you otherwise. I don't know what I'm doing fully, I'm trying to do my best just like everyone else but like the song goes, reaching out for human faith is a journey I just don't have a map for.
[media=https://youtu.be/HCm6gRHINqA?t=2] Things mother never told you.
I needed to know. I mean after all I want to date women. A huge number of them get SAed at some point.
