I Am Allergic To Bullshit

Here she goes again,I can already hear that statement loud and clear.Lets not bother reading any further,that woman is full of bitterness,she is not giving herself a break,nor to us for that matter.We have ben told by several "experts" that forgiveness is an instant cure for all feelings of hurt and anger,just "forgive" and all will be well,not being able to "forgive" only shows how you lack strength of character and generosity! BULLSHIT! Please read that article,it is most intelligent and insightful and most generous too.Jesus said "forgive 77 times 7" I am not Jesus ,I am not a saint, I AM A HUMAN BEING and I do not subscribe to spychological trends and widely accepted preconceived bullshit.Lets get real!

https://sometimesmagical.wordpress.com/2013/01/11/forgiveness-is-bullshit/

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nelladell

i've never found it helpful when someone is pushed to "forgive." i wish i had somethng that was helpful to say because i care and because i know you deserve the peace i wish for you.

berangere · 80-89, F

Thank you for your kind thoughts.In time painful memories will stop bothering me,it will not matter any more.I think the sadness we feel,the sadness that is so hard to shake off is linked to the fact that we did care and yes, loved the people who betrayed us.When we fully accept that those people were not worth loving we then can let go of the pain.They then will not be more meaningful to us than any other bullies.

nelladell

thank you for being such a dear and loyal friend.