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Alyosha · 36-40, M
Cats are independent but can be very loving. They consider themselves people at least, possibly above you, depending on breed and temperament. They require very little maintenance. You simply have to train them to use the box, then clean it and provide them food and water. The rest is on you to interact with your cat and learn its behaviors. Some cats will be lap cats, some won't. Some will get up on your shoulders. They want to be petted and adored. It's up to you if you get cuddly with your cat. Some people seem to just want them around the house. Some use them to catch mice. But if you're looking for a pet and not for their utilitarian functions like vermin population decimation then they can be very afectionate if you put in the time. My cat likes to cuddle me in the mornings.