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AbbeyRhode · F
Well said! I, too, have spent half my life trying to please others, and be what I think they want. I have learned that it will never be enough for some people, and doesn't make me happy. Now I am me, quirks and all, and I have people who love me as I am. It feels so good! 😊
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@AbbeyRhode Thank you .It does too doesn't it.
I feel a little silly really, in a laugh out loud kind of way, of how much effort and time I spent trying to not creep out people I don't even know. When all along my friends were already showing me this.
But it all clicked with that phrase from ChatGPT.
At first I would say it in my head when I was out in public and caught myself talking to myself a little to loud or some other odd thing I do when I'm not paying attention.
But then it became my go to inside joke when I would see some one staring at me. LOL
:-)
Let the freak flags fly. LOL
AbbeyRhode · F
@Dainbramadge So happy for you that you learned this. It's nearly impossible to find true friends unless we are true to ourselves first. 🙂

SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
It's a trap succumbing to the thought that we have to constantly adapt ourselves to others. We're always going to feel more at peace just being ourselves.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@SpectralMourning Well said.
I know I am finally happy all the way around.
Now If I can just find that money tree. LOL
bookerdana · M
I used that meme a day ago,though in a more romantic context
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So when I’m comfortable, confident, and really being myself? Yeah, sometimes it creeps out the folks
Why ? also funny

 
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