If you were the husband of your wife and you have a kid with her and you were getting tired of her nagging, which of these two options would you take?
1) Stay loyal to your wife
2) Begin having an affair with your wife's married best friend, she decides to file for a divorce from her husband, both you and your wife's now divorced best friend plot to gaslight the living shit out of the wife so that she goes crazy and gets institutionalized, you divorce your wife,marry your wife's best friend, and your wife's best friend legally adopts your kid that you have with your wife. Also, your lover (your wife's best friend) purchased drugs and planted drugs at your wife's work to get her fired. The gaslighting process has just started. This is an elaborate scheme that both you and your wife's best friend have cooked up so that the both of you can get married, have the wife lose her job, get institutionalized, so that the wife's best friend can adopt your kid, and take over the life of your wife and become the mother of your kid.
Your wifeYour wife's best friend