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I Got A Belt Whipping From My Husband

I strongly believe in punishment. The interesting thing about punishment is that women want punishment more than men want to punish them. This is because once a woman has experienced punishment she understands how it puts her in touch with her inner need to change.
Punishment is extremely binding for a couple. It tangibly demonstrates devotion from both. The Husband must be ever watchful, caring and attentive and the sub must love her Husband beyond measure to accept punishment as part of her life. Punishment is also very cleansing. At that exact moment when the punishment is completed it is like moving from dark to light. All is renewed and refreshed and all outstanding matters are dealt with. Tightly bound harmony is restored.

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cloudgirl1 · 31-35, F

Total agreement sister Amanda.
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Dshhh · M

@cloudgirl1 very nice work.. just enough!

1olderguy20 · 61-69, M

@cloudgirl1 is that you

1olderguy20 · 61-69, M

@cloudgirl1 that was some bekt whipping

Lisa82 · 41-45, F

Oh my gosh yes. So blessed to have this in my life.

pcasper59 · 61-69, F

@Lisa82 I so agree and relate to having applied discipline in my life as well!

pcasper59 · 61-69, F

It certainly does make things go better when Hubby steps up and spanks us wives in need to get us focused again! A good hubby can sense when we do need extra attention putting the belt or paddle to good use !

Amandaw1191 · 31-35, F

@pcasper59 yes completely agree

JayneA · 36-40, F

Yes many of them

Kirin4OTK · 70-79, M

Beautifully stated. The pain of the punishment is simply the vehicle by which the catharsis occurs. Beyond that pain lies forgiveness, redemption and love -- something we all seek.

sfish007 · 61-69, M

you look at some couples that fight.. Nasty words, bitterness.. Unresolved. Discipline in the home addresses the issues... It clears the air, and when done, a lesson is learned, there is forgiveness.. It brings a calm to the one being punished.. A submissive mindset.. For some, it even tames a bit of the feral attitude and makes them feel more feminine.. I find that after, there is a very close and almost sensual bond that ensues..

MaryDreamilton · 46-50, F

I love being spanked for pleasure, not punishment.

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MaryDreamilton · 46-50, F

@Kirin4OTK I want it to be painful, I've always been a masochist.

PunkRockSuperStar · 56-60, M

Beautifully expressed, Amanda.

YourNewOwner7 · 51-55, M

Very well said!

MarySomerville · 46-50, F

I agree however I get my spankings from a friend as I want them to be like I had as a child across the knee with undies down, skirt pulled back and spanked that way. It is not possible with my hubby as he would not understand.

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angie8819 · 56-60, F

@johnsonjelena45 yeah

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pcasper59 · 61-69, F

Nice article and yes I so agree with your thoughts and can relate . Yes women do need punishment as I do to get back on track and feel relieved and closer after a good hard spanking ! Hubbys don't always understand and many of them won't punish and is frustrating for those women who so need punishment .I am glad that my hubby does step up doing his duty;but many won't.

Amandaw1191 · 31-35, F

@pcasper59 lovely reply thank you

PunkRockSuperStar · 56-60, M

@pcasper59 I think the forgiveness and relief from guilt that follows a firm, well-deserved spanking is why it's such a positive and therapeutic thing for women. It's an act of love. You ladies should consider yourselves blessed!

pcasper59 · 61-69, F

@PunkRockSuperStar True that!!

Julie44 · 51-55, F

Wow, love your philosophy, my mother disciplined me severely until my late teens, I had my ex whip me, he was hesitant and not really into it, maybe you have figured out why

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BlueRain · F

You are right

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hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M

If not every detail I certainly agree with the overall. Yes I spank my wife for both punishment and mostly for her own need for firm grounding. It centers her and helps her deal with her feelings.

funjulie · 31-35, F

I am punished by my long time boyfriend. I wouldn’t want it any other way

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StrictSouthernHOH · 46-50, M

Punishment for misbehavior or disobedience reinforces the Husband's or HoH's authority over the submissive. She may not want it but deep down inside she knows she needs it. It helps maintain peace and harmony in the family.

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@StrictSouthernHOH i agree

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Dshhh · M

@pcasper59 and you have such a [b]nice butt [/b]for it

PunkRockSuperStar · 56-60, M

@pcasper59 This is so beautiful to read!

Joedirt88 · M

@pcasper59 agreed sometimes my wife has me spank her just for stress relief.

StrictSouthernHOH · 46-50, M

If a girl is taught to accept punishment when she is young, I believe she will more easily accept it as a married woman. This will help to bring peace and harmony in her marriage and home lie.