I was freshly divorced and attending night school at a community college and a woman my age in my class actually brought it up in a conversation with a group of us. Later she asked me if I had ever done it, she noted I was the only one that didn’t flip out when she talked about it, and I told her no but I wanted to try it. She was also divorced, so that Saturday night I went to her place and well, she did it to me with a 6 inch pink strap on well lubricated, not too rough and I liked it. It didn’t really hurt but it was uncomfortable at first with the stretching.