an unspoken social contract

despite discovering early on that being a tease can be exhilarating, i feel like my favorite flashings are the times when i'm least aware i'm doing it. like it honestly almost seems like certain fashions aim to make it purposeful while still feeling incidental. and i kinda love how that translates into conscientiously minding my manners feeling demure and proper. and yet, what i'm expecting to remain unseen is still visible. i doubt i'm the only one who's aware of the paradox, but for me it's the fact that it subconsciously doesn't register how attempting to prevent an upskirt can still allow an intimate glimpse. that is until i'm reminded by noticing a wayward glance, and wondering how many others there've been.

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SecretSquirrel · 56-60, M

Yes,puddyls is eloquently saying the female aspect of flashing.Any woman could go out maybe without any panties on at all,and sit on a park bench for instance,and just sit with her legs apart,so theres no doubt she isnt wearing panties.Maybe she would find that arousing i dont know.She would get a lot of looks but i think most guys wouldnt be so excited paradoxically.(we guys can be complex too.)
Now a woman sat on a bench,intending to give flashes,but in her own way,maybe just cross her legs a little more slowly,and guys might just be peeking enough to see a glimpse of her panties,surely is infinitely more sexual and exciting than just letting it all hang out?

SecretSquirrel · 56-60, M

Imagine like in the photo above,puddyls was sat opposite you,and demurely,and in a feminine way,gave you a flash of her pink panties,for maybe 2 seconds,then she walked away,pretending she didnt even realise.
You would be like "Jeez,i saw pink panties i swear,oh my god.."
That 2 seconds would stay in your mind for days,more than if some woman just sat with her legs open wide.

SecretSquirrel · 56-60, M

yes doing it overtly wont be quite as sexy to us guys,we like to think you dont know we are looking kind of.Like"Oh my word,i can see that girls panties,if i just peek carefully i can get a show without her knowing he hee.."and looking away just in case.