My partner wants to occasionally share me with a lonely widowed long time gentleman friend of his. I don't mind letting them share me. Is this wrong?

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My partner wants to occasionally share me with a lonely widowed long time gentleman friend of his. They worked together for many years and he is very isolated and depressed after losing his wife of 42 years several years ago. I have met him and feel bad for this lonely widowed gentleman. Is it wrong for me to do this?

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GrinNude · 61-69, C

I have to admit that I first had sex with Robert because Ernie was encouraging me to and I wanted to please Ernie. I had met his friend beforehand and I felt sorry for this lonely depressed gentleman who worked with Ernie for so many years. So I agreed to do this for them. I had always been faithful to Ernie but in this situation with Ernie's encouragement, it felt like the right thing to do. I was very pleasantly surprised by how comfortable I felt having sex with them and how much pleasure we all shared. Now I look forward to our very enjoyable get togethers.

yinandyang · 61-69, M

@GrinNude I know exactly what you mean. I had to encourage my wife to be with my lifelong best friend, I knew that she had a crush on him since day one. I bumped into him one day and asked him over to share a few drinks with my wife and I. He agreed and stopped over the following evening. After a few drinks and some weed, my wife loosened up on her inhibitions, The evening went a lot better than I expected, I was watching both of them together. This was always a fantasy of mine but I never thought that it would happen. How often do you get together?

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@yinandyang Now that Robert is socializing more and having an occasional date, we see him a bit less. About once a month or so. Ernie talks with him regularly and he is doing much better. He still enjoys and looks forward to our get-togethers. We do also. 😊

yinandyang · 61-69, M

@GrinNude Yes it is nice to have a change of pace every once in a while, isn't it? Has your wife been with any other men?

MaryesK9 · 56-60, F

@yinandyang yes I have, as has he 😉